Criticism is NOT NICE....

Face it, everyone's a critic.
I mean we all have people in our lives that put us down and "Curb Stomp"-s (Ever watched the first scene of American Society X? Where the cocky guy "neutralized" the aggravator by stomping his face on the curb of the sidewalk? Well, there's your answer...that was the curb stomp) our dreams, our way of life and even the way we see things. Though people will say that you or I MAY have an inferiority complex. But, unknowingly it WAS their fault we have inferiority complex in one point of our lives. I also do forgive them for that. What I'm just saying is that you hate their "Crab Mentality" philosophy, NOT THE PERSON ITSELF. So you can further focus on lambasting the "Crab" inside us not the person him or herself. I do NOT support Pessimism, Crab Mentality or any of that sort. It only damages our inside, not to mention it damages anyone else's dreams in our life. It really sucks but at the most, it is THAT very same element which drives us to Excel for a better future and also let people know that they shouldn't put people down and all. I've experienced all the put downs and all in my life from call my way of life "Lousy" (This really put me into this state --> (T_T) I know it hurts me deep within), to deliberately being put down for using a program other than their supposed program (long story...next few posts if requested), even I was not being shown respect, to even being accused with harsh words. It is not the person who you should hate, but it's the negativity and the bad nature of pessimism itself.

Even there and then, through God's Love I still forgive them and all. It wasn't intended and all. Jesus and John, From the Bible mentions about forgiveness in these Verses:

Matthew 5:43-44
"You have heard that it was said, 'Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.'
But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,"

Matthew 6:14
"For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you."

1 John 4:20-21 that
"If anyone says, 'I love God,' yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen.
And he has given us this command: 'Whoever loves God must also love his brother.'"

As God created us, He is also the God of Love and Understanding, He created us in His Image and Likeness, therefore we also must also love the very people who hurt us and we must understand their viewpoints too. If we are to Love God, we are to Love Everyone too and be forgiving to them, no matter how hurtful their actions caused us in our past. We all know that it's hard to forgive and to move on, but healing takes time and the past cannot be changed. It is a gradual process in your life and in that person's life too. There is a reason why patience is in our lives, so we may see the light of the future of everything and not be stuck in the dark pit of our past. God loves us and He gave His Son for us to die for our sins. He died for us and loved us, therefore we should do the same for everyone around us. We must love everyone, no matter who they are, cause God loves us.

God bless all of you and I hope that would brighten our views in life, especially when it comes to other people.